codependent

This digital mandala has been created according to the beliefs and principles of the Maitreya Reiki™ System of Spiritual Healing.

This field will provide guidance to your subconscious to help address various aspects of codependency:

● Cognitive Dissonance: Codependents often experience cognitive dissonance when they are in a harmful or toxic relationship with someone who tells them they love them or whom they convince themselves loves them. The confusion stems from the belief that admitting the reality of a bad relationship means they won’t find a better option. This field will provide guidance to your subconscious to help you realize that life can and will provide better friends, family, or intimate partners, and that you don’t need to hold on to something that is harming you. It will also encourage you to see when you are not being honest with yourself about the nature of a relationship.

● Lack of Self-Directedness: Codependents may feel they need someone to give them permission or command to take initiative and better themselves. This field will provide guidance to your subconscious to help you see and feel the benefits of doing things purely for your own good. It will encourage healthy self-initiative, helping you live a fulfilling life without depending on others for motivation.

● Over-Receptivity: Codependents often exist in a state of over-receptivity, taking in an overabundance of external input rather than creating in their own life. This field will provide guidance to your subconscious to help you become aware of your internal spark of life and balance your receptivity and creativity. Over time, you will find yourself creating more in your life rather than passively waiting for others to influence you.

● Understanding Love: This field will provide guidance to your subconscious to help you become clear about the kind of love you are giving in your relationships. If your love is given with the expectation of receiving something in return, the field will help you recognize this and choose to give love freely, without conditions. It will also help you express your needs and desires clearly to your loved ones, protecting you from the motives that often entrap one in a codependent relationship with an abusive person.

• Changing Perceptions: For a codependent to move forward, their perceptions of many things need to change. This field will provide guidance to your subconscious to help you shift your perceptions using techniques from NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming). It will help you change modalities, meanings, and order of thoughts to find perceptions that help you live your best life, while safeguarding you from forming untrue perceptions.

This field will provide guidance to your subconscious to help you shift into a different modality when thinking until you find the one that is most beneficial for that given memory or perception. It will help you stick with this new and more useful way of processing, find more useful meanings to attach to memories or ideas, and even change the order of thoughts in complex perceptions.

The field focuses on key areas of life, including:

• Memories of the past, especially those that are traumatic or hold you back.
• Perceptions of your current life situation.
• Perceptions of the possible future and the best ways to move towards it.
• Ideas about the best time to take action.
• Perceptions of who you really are.

Finally, this field will provide guidance to your subconscious to put a safeguard in place so that people or events will not be able to shift you back into less helpful perceptions, modalities, or meanings. It will also remove any fear that anyone could do so, helping you lose a major incentive for avoiding life and people.